So, I'm starting to think that the man I want to be is not strictly possible.  I want to be a devoted husband, an attentive father, a flawless housekeeper, an excellent cook, a responsible pet owner, a self-sustaining organic vegetable gardener, a marathoner, a multi-linguist, a Biblical scholar and an accomplished musician.  Something's got to give.  Or, maybe I should be all that and more...